No matter what they tell you - "you're over-reacting", "you're acting crazy", "Everything is fine", "there is nothing going on" - TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!!
He doesn't look at you quite the same way.
He's a little more distant.
He doesn't tell you he loves you often as he used to.
He no longer touches you for no reason.
He no longer holds your hand when you go out.
He no longer spends as much time with you as he used to.
He seems to be going out a bit more than normal.
If you THINK there is something wrong - chances are there IS!
Trust yourself. Womens intuition is REAL! Don't let anyone tell you anything different!
You can feel it in the pit of your stomach, bubbling up to your brain. Your mind races, your heart throbs, and you KNOW - you know... you don't THINK - you know.
You need to trust this. This is real, and you are right!
My husband was acting "strange" for about 2 months. I asked him over and over what was going on - nothing. You're acting strange - no I'm not. Something is happening - no it's not. You are being different - nope, I'm exactly the same as I always was.
You know what? I was right. My instinct - starting at the pit of my stomach and bubbling up to my brain - was right. Dead - on! Soon - I will be separated. I will be a statistic. I still cannot tell you why. I still cannot think of a reason, a fight so bad, something that cannot be worked out.
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so so true..My heart goes out to you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for what you're going through.
ReplyDeleteI've not been in this situation, but I know for a fact that women DO have strong intuitions. You know in your very soul when something's not right, whether it's in your relationships, your body, your pregnancies, your children. Women KNOW without knowing.
Trust your instincts!
**HUGS**
ReplyDeleteAwww, sorry that you are going through this right now (((hugs)))
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Followed you here from LBS. So sorry for what you are going through. It's true. If your gut is telling you something, always verify. Woman's intuition is real.
ReplyDeletehi from the lbs social tea party - sorry to hear you're going through this and hope the best for you!
ReplyDeleteI think you are so right. Trust your instincts and your intuition. Did you read this one I wrote recently? All about signs and trusting your intuition http://simplysolo.wordpress.com/2010/10/01/i-believe-in-signs/
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